5 nonfiction books on the spiritual side of sex
October 14, 2016
From Rumi to Urban Tantra, five books to get literary about sex! … More 5 nonfiction books on the spiritual side of sex
What does it mean to be polyamorous?
October 13, 2016
I felt comfortable with the label once I revamped what it meant for me to be romantically committed to someone else. I no longer committed to dates every week with anyone. And I realized expectations of time, energy, and commitment are simply matters of compatibility. … More What does it mean to be polyamorous?
What does it actually mean to be non-monogamous?
September 29, 2016
Several people have reached out to me lately wondering if non-monogamy is right for them. In order to help them figure that out, I’m going to do a series of posts on my general thoughts on the topic, starting with what it means to be non-monogamous. When I started thinking through this, I figured I … More What does it actually mean to be non-monogamous?
Interview with David Wraith
September 10, 2016
“People used to say, “What Would Jesus Do?” Well, among other things, I think he’d be working alongside the trans community.” … More Interview with David Wraith
Why non-monogamy, even if it’s more difficult, is worthwhile (for me)
September 9, 2016
I’m committed to non-monogamy because, once again, I like who I’ve become because of it. I am not, however, claiming that being non-monogamous OR queer, kinky, or even a Christian has completely healed the cracks in my self-worth, my body image, etc. … More Why non-monogamy, even if it’s more difficult, is worthwhile (for me)
My Story – Part Six: Coming Out Poly, Queer and Kinky
August 31, 2016
This morning, trying to find my car, I couldn’t outrun my thoughts. Instead, attacking me like mosquitos were two questions and a statement: Have I become too unique to find a life partner? Am I not good enough? I don’t believe he exists. … More My Story – Part Six: Coming Out Poly, Queer and Kinky
My Story – Part Five: Coming Out Poly, Queer and Kinky
August 11, 2016
Throughout the summer, I’ll be posting how I learned to be the most authentic version of me while holding onto my Christian faith. Six posts: how I came out as queer, polyamorous, and kinky. I started with Part One: Coming Out Queer. I suggest you read that first. When I embraced my sexual side: with … More My Story – Part Five: Coming Out Poly, Queer and Kinky
Why Sex, Gender, and Sexuality Matter
July 29, 2016
Figuring out how to love who I want to love and how I want to love them, while maintaining my relationship with God has been extremely important to my growth as a person, but I also recognize that my story is built on privilege. … More Why Sex, Gender, and Sexuality Matter
My Story – Part Four: Coming Out Poly, Queer and Kinky
July 17, 2016
Throughout the summer, I’ll be posting how I learned to be the most authentic version of me while holding onto my Christian faith. Six posts: how I came out as queer, polyamorous, and kinky. I started with Part One: Coming Out Queer. I suggest you read that first. I met David shortly before my 27th birthday. … More My Story – Part Four: Coming Out Poly, Queer and Kinky
My Story – Part Three: Coming Out Poly
July 5, 2016
In order for me to be ready for something as “alternative” as polyamory, I had to shed the notion that God created all people to live the same story. And when I met a woman who introduced me to the idea of polyamory, all of a sudden there were new options in my mind about what could make me happy. … More My Story – Part Three: Coming Out Poly
Church of the Scarlet Letter 